Loving others

A close married friend of mine was talking with me, today. And he said that when you get married you marry for “better or for worse” and sometimes that “worse” is you hurting because you know that you are not the man you want to be for your wife. You don’t always know how to be there for her or give her what she needs. And you want so much more for her. But you don’t back away. And you are not to be afraid of being her husband. You continue to be her husband and to walk with the Lord in loving her. You are her husband for “better or for worse”, even when that “worse” is you.

This convicted me because I don’t always feel adequate to be there for others and I always want to give so much more than I seem able to. I don’t need to hide because I feel inadequate or because I hurt so much because I do not know how to be there. Sometimes you have to realize, regardless of your adequacy, it does not stop you from being a friend. And sometimes that is all you know how to be “for better or for worse”.